Speak up for yourself
A simple, effective way to sidestep sabotage (well meaning or not). "Another slice won't hurt, you don't need to lose weight, but you've always looked like this-it's who you are." Do any of these sound familiar? If so, you've faced sabotage at some point along the way and it can undermine your weight loss journey. Something to keep in mind, is that most often, sabotage is not intentional. Often it's the people that love you the most say or do things that could derail your weight loss and maintenance efforts. These people don't even realize they're doing it. They think they are helping you. Many people associate food with love. The bottom line is not to assume that friends and family are trying to harm your weight loss journey. Take the time to explain to them how you feel sabotaged and let them know how they can better support you and your goals. after all, they won't be able to change their behaviors unless they know how th